to show himself face to face. God refused to do that, but he passed by Moses as Moses hid in a
crack in a rock. God revealed his name Yahweh and revealed his nature: ―Yahweh, Yahweh, the
compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness‖ (Exodus
34:6).
And yet we persist --as the Pharisees did—in believing in a God who is more than
anything a judge, who keeps score, who gives us grades, and decides at the end of this very long
school whether we pass or not. We find it hard to believe that the real God can be compassionate.
Maybe we need God to be just and moral. Maybe we figure such a God would be wishful
thinking. But most people I talk to about what happens when you die are laboring under the
burden of thinking that this is a pass-fail course. God, for them, is the parental critic and not the
parental embrace.
We need to be clear about the difference between karma and grace. Other religions
believe in karma—that what goes around comes around, that you will pay in the end, or perhaps
be rewarded. Christianity says no, you will be loved in the end, you will be forgiven, if you can
just embrace that reality now. The rock star Bono, who was Time‘s Person of the Year a few
years back and has been nominated for the Nobel Peace Prize, expressed the difference between
karma and grace as clearly as anyone in an interview:
―At the center of all religions is the idea of Karma. You know, what you put out comes
back to you: an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth, or in physics – in physical laws – every
action is met by an equal or an opposite one. It‘s clear to me that Karma is at the very
heart of the Universe. I‘m absolutely sure of it. And yet, along comes this idea called
Grace to upend all that ‗As you sow, so will you reap‘ stuff. Grace defies reason and
logic. Love interrupts, if you like, the consequences of your actions, which in my case is
very good news indeed, because I‘ve done a lot of stupid stuff.‖ When [the interviewer]
asks him to clarify what he means by ―a lot of stupid stuff‖ Bono responds, ―That‘s
between me and God. But I‘d be in big trouble if Karma was going to finally be my
judge. I‘d be in deep s**t. It doesn‘t excuse my mistakes, but I‘m holding out for Grace.
I‘m holding out that Jesus took my sins onto the Cross, because I know who I am, and I
hope I don‘t have to depend on my own religiosity‖ [Bono: In Conversation with Michka Assayas
(Riverhead, 2005, 203-4].
On Father‘s Day I can‘t avoid the story of the prodigal son, although I have preached on
it before. A better title for that parable would be The Compassionate Father. No doubt you know
the story: the boy wanted his father‘s money more than he wanted his father, so he took the
money and ran. The boy wasted the money and his life. But when he came home because he had
nowhere else to go, thinking that he might be accepted as an employee by his father, the father
had compassion on the son. He embraced him as his child. He did not put him on probation. He
did not give him one more chance to prove himself. He threw his arms around him and said,
―You were missing, and now I‘ve found you! You were dead to me, and now you are alive.‖
God waits for you to return to him. Philip Yancey [What’s So Amazing About Grace] tells about a
pastor friend who was battling with his 15 year-old daughter. She had started using birth control,
and several nights she did not come home at all. No form of punishment seemed to work. She
lied to them and deceived them and blamed them for being too strict. The friend said, ―I
remember standing before the plate-glass window in my living room, staring out into the
darkness, waiting for her to come home. I felt such rage. I wanted to be like the father of the
prodigal son, yet I was furious with my daughter for the way she would manipulate us and twist
the knife to hurt us. And of course, she was hurting herself more than anyone. I understood then